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The Darker Side of the Foot Fetish

Ms.Zombie — Mon, 24 May 2010 13:22:50 +0000

Like everything there is normally a darker side to a fetish. This doesn’t mean it is bad, it just means that its a tad more dangerous. How could a foot fetish be dangerous? Well 3 common activities with this fetish is bondage of the feet, crushing/ trampling/ peddle pushing, and whipping. They are all basically when pain meets pleasure and is definitely not for every one.

Crushing/ Trampling/ Peddle Pushing:

I know a lot of guys take pride in their family jewels. There are some though that like them boy’s to be tortured. The idea of being punished gets them off and in the foot fetish world it would be done by three things: crushing, trampling, and peddle pushing. They are all very similar and revolve around a woman wearing a boot or stiletto and using the shoe on various parts. Crushing is exactly what it sounds like. Taking the soul of the shoe or the heal and crushing the ball sack or dick. Peddle pushing is mostly done with the soul and I’m sure you can imagine it in your head. Trampling I think is a little more violent because unlike the last two this has a little more force to it. Whichever one you like please be careful and use safe words, you don’t want he to rupture anything.

Bondage:

Yes you can do bondage with the feet. This actually goes back to ancient Asian traditions of trying to keep their women’s feet small. Now a days they use it for sex. It ranges from using rope or cloth to ankle cuffs and toe cuffs. If you decide to go this way make sure that the bonding are not too tight. Also make sure there is an easy way out. If there are locks make sure that they work as well. The last thing you want to do is have to stop sexy time to go to the ER and have them remove your ankle cuffs because the lock jammed and your feet are turning purple.

Whipping:

Ever go to a sex store and see those cat toy looking things? Well those are to inflict pain. Normally they are used for ass cheeks, tits, backs, etc. but you can use them on your feet as well.. I’m not saying go and give her a savage beating on her feet, but a couple good whips won’t hurt. Paddles work well too. Anything really to make you feel in control. Just make sure her feet aren’t fully flexed cause you don’t to over extend the foot when contact is made.

So have fun with your bad self, just make sure you don’t get toooooo hurt.

First Time with Bondage

Ms.Zombie — Wed, 14 Apr 2010 14:58:28 +0000

Now I won’t lie, I like being held down alittle, which lead me to write this article. Bondage is one of the most destructive, yet popular fetishes. Why? Well some people like to be in control and others like to be helpless. Now I am not saying I like being helpless all the time but sometimes it can be fun. Now whether or not you have fun with it is based on if you know how to do it correctly.

Let’s get some background on this sexy thing called bondage. Bondage was originally a torture device, but just like everything that is good, it got thrown into the gutter. Now you can use hand cuffs, rope, duck tape, wires…. the list can go on, but there are some key points you have to remember. First, don”t forget your safe word bitches. Second, never, ever leave the bondage person alone. Also, try not to do anything that would suffocate the person…. that’s not cool. For example, if she has a stuffed nose and you have her hog tied on the bed don’t use the gag ball on her… get my point? Think a little before you start.

Now that you are ready to try, there are a couple things you can do after you tied your bitch up. You can use it as a great foreplay device. You can go down on her, rub her pussy or even take a toy out like using a vibrator. you can also fuck her if you would like to, just don’t forget to tease the crap out of her. Some people like to be tickled or spanked while tied up as well.

Remember boys, you don’t need to go all out for this first. Start with blind folds, maybe hand cuffs or a Japanese rope set. Believe it or not you actually might find this brings you and your chica closer together. Bondage takes a lot of trust, so pay attention to her signs because if you want more, do it right the first time!

I will definitely be coming back to this topic more in the future but this is just the beginning of the relationship with you and bondage, so check back for more.

Some articles that might help you to do fun things during bondage are:

Hair pulling

Safe word
Nipple Stimulation

Safe Word : How To Use Them

Ms.Zombie — Tue, 06 Apr 2010 15:34:47 +0000

Have you ever had a time where things got out of hand and before you knew it someone was trying to force a dildo up your ass and when you said stop, the chick thought you were playing along? Or how bout the spanking that just hurt too damn much but that pesky gag ball was in the way of her stopping? Read on and find how to make sex kinky yet comfortable by using one little word.

The first and most important rule when dealing with any type of fetish is the safe word. I know you have probably heard it before, but thought, what the hell’s a safe word? Well boys listen up cause this can save you from lots of pain on your end and on hers.

The term safe word is usually used when dealing with BMSM (aka bondage, submission, etc.) However, I think this should be used in all types of fetishes due to the fact that sometimes things can get out of hand and you don’t want things to be awkward. Before playing or starting whatever kink you want, set up a word that you or she can say and which will mean stop. You got that! She says the word and you stop! Not slow down, not go lighter, but STOP!

For selection on safe word I recommend not going with the obvious. For example, you should never use the words no, stop, hold on, no more…. I think you get my drift. Instead, use something that you would never, ever, ever say during sex, like taco or coffee. Also make sure this is a small word that can be said easily. Don’t have her recite the Monty Python Lumberjack song, a simple word will be fine. If there is something that would stop you from talking (like choking or forced deep throating) make a sign like a flick in the forehead. Do not tap the wrist because this could be seen as part of the role playing. You as the partner need to also be all eyes and ears to make sure you are looking out for the signs and words.

Trust me this is a must before you start. You can benefit from having a safe word so no one gets hurt!