Happy Humper Sex Advice for Men By Women » nipple stimulation http://www.happyhumper.com Sex Advice for Men By Women Thu, 03 Feb 2011 16:05:46 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 First Time with Bondage http://www.happyhumper.com/2010/04/first_time_with_bondage/ http://www.happyhumper.com/2010/04/first_time_with_bondage/#comments Wed, 14 Apr 2010 14:58:28 +0000 Ms.Zombie http://www.happyhumper.com/?p=725 Now I won’t lie, I like being held down alittle, which lead me to write this article. Bondage is one of the most destructive, yet popular fetishes. Why? Well some people like to be in control and others like to be helpless. Now I am not saying I like being helpless all the time but sometimes it can be fun. Now whether or not you have fun with it is based on if you know how to do it correctly.
 
Let’s get some background on this sexy thing called bondage. Bondage was originally a torture device, but just like everything that is good, it got thrown into the gutter. Now you can use hand cuffs, rope, duck tape, wires…. the list can go on, but there are some key points you have to remember. First, don”t forget your safe word bitches. Second, never, ever leave the bondage person alone. Also, try not to do anything that would suffocate the person…. that’s not cool. For example, if she has a stuffed nose and you have her hog tied on the bed don’t use the gag ball on her… get my point? Think a little before you start.
 
Now that you are ready to try, there are a couple things you can do after you tied your bitch up. You can use it as a great foreplay device. You can go down on her, rub her pussy or even take a toy out like using a vibrator. you can also fuck her if you would like to, just don’t forget to tease the crap out of her. Some people like to be tickled or spanked while tied up as well.
 
Remember boys, you don’t need to go all out for this first. Start with blind folds, maybe hand cuffs or a Japanese rope set. Believe it or not you actually might find this brings you and your chica closer together. Bondage takes a lot of trust, so pay attention to her signs because if you want more, do it right the first time!
 
I will definitely be coming back to this topic more in the future but this is just the beginning of the relationship with you and bondage, so check back for more.
 
Some articles that might help you to do fun things during bondage are:
]]> http://www.happyhumper.com/2010/04/first_time_with_bondage/feed/ 1 Nipple Stimulation http://www.happyhumper.com/2010/02/nipple-stimulation/ http://www.happyhumper.com/2010/02/nipple-stimulation/#comments Tue, 02 Feb 2010 16:37:19 +0000 Ms.Zombie http://www.happyhumper.com/?p=106 Note: Most guys will blame girls on this one. You normally say, “well she didn’t touch them that means that she doesn’t like doing that.” In some cases that is true, but sometimes you just got to let her know it is ok.

I never use to play with my guys nips until he straight up said try this, and I found out it is awesome! So communicate motha fuckas!
Nipple play, or aka nipple torture, can be a really, really fun thing to do before and during sex!

As always there is a range on peoples response to it, but that is where the fun comes into play, when you experiment. For me I love giving my guy nipple play just because of his reaction. From to gasps to the facial expressions it gets me totally wet.
Now with nipple play you can do this with one or two ways:
*By yourself jacking off. It gives you something to do with your other hand
*With you partner of course
If you have never done it before don’t feel silly or shy.

You like playing with chicks nipples why should you be holding out on the fun.

A good way to introduce it is have her lick or suck you nipples. Ice cubes can be fun either applied straight on to it or in her mouth as she sucks. While sucking don’t be surprised if you both get into it, she might try to nibble.

Just let her know if she is biting too hard. The last thing you want is a bitten off nipple. Personally I like pulling, flicking and tweaking them. I think I get off on doing it as much as he does.
To the ones who like it a little harder, toys can be the tools you need. The two that are the most common are the nipple clamps and suctions. The clamps can be fun; they put just the right amount of pressure for the right amount of simulation.

Now they can look scary when at first glance but they work kind of like that clip on pirate earring that you probably had for Halloween. Some even come with pullies on them so she can give a good tug! The suction is pretty self exploratory. The stimulation is caused by the air pressure that is being sucked around where ever you place it.
Guys these tips work great on girls too. You wouldn’t like your chest to be used like an XBox controller, well neither do we. So why not try it on her too, ’cause if you know how to treat her right she’ll come back for more.

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