A great idea is to link her genital excitement with the rest of her skin. Fella’s, please don’t make the mistake of thinking her only erotic area lies between the legs. And know that when you do get between her legs and start exciting her, every inch of the rest of her is stimulated and waiting to be paid attention to.

Do this, as you stroke and rub her clitoris, always stroke some other part of her body at the same time. Or, you may work starting at one point and ending at the other. For example, start by caressing her nipples and then glide your fingers down to her clit. Delicately fondle her clit and tease her a bit by moving to circles on the inside of her legs. You might try connecing the clitoris up with the:

breasts, toes,  mouth, anus, armpits… all great turn on points. I know, toes are touchy, but armpits are acutally quite stimulating.

Happy Humping

This question always springs up when talking to men about sex. My question is, how could we be a site about humping without bringing it up?

 The truth is yes, yes it does, but not necessarily the way you think. The following is my take on size (plus a few outside sources)…

Size matters for different pleasures.

Let me start by pointing out the fact that the ‘average’ dick size is 5.2 inches. That being said, lets continue…

I want to start with anal sex, not just because its the first letter of the alphabet. Anal sex, for example, needs to be done with a larger penis. Most women who haven’t had anal sex, or only had it with smaller dick may disagree.

It makes perfect sense to think that a smaller cock in the ass would be more comfortable. Well, no, its not. Small cocks in the ass just feel like a little turd you want to squeeze out. Sorry for the horrible mental picture but it’s really quite uncomfortable. A larger cock actually gives a woman better anal sex, reaching and stroking her spots (yes, plural) inside her vagina through that thin wall that separates it from the rectum.

Not to say that our Humpers out there with normal to small cocks can’t rock it in the anal sex arena, I’m just stating that this is one spot where size does tend to matter, not talking about skill here, just pure size. Argue amongst yourselves.

Next is for vaginal sex… size matters yet again. Interestingly enough it seems that most women are more comfortable with a smaller cock. Here are some of the more common reasons:

1. The most straight forward reason is that one of the easiest spots on a woman is located near the opening of the vagina. The g-spot. With a smaller cock, this particular spot is hit more times by the head of the penis. Thus, more orgasms. HooAHH! If you are lost when it cums to hitting the g-spot either by finger or by cock, watch this: 

2. Another, deeper reasoning is that statistically men with smaller cocks are better lovers. They have better attitudes toward sex due to their inadequacies about their size. If you really want to get into underlying issues, smaller men tend to go about sex more emotionally. They appreciate every lay they can get due to their own issues of embarrassment, humility, and modesty. They also feel they have to make up for their size in other ways, therefore they do everything and anything to make it enjoyable to their lady.

To throw it out there, statistically smaller men are also less likely to cheat.

In short, they know how to work the FUCK out of what momma gave ’em. Yes, there is the “is it in?” factor that all smaller men fear. But, women only think it if you’re not working your goods. Go in and hump her like a pooch humps a stuffed animal and all you’ll get is asked to pass the nail file from the night stand.

But getting back to it, larger men tend to go into the bedroom with the attitude that they are doing her a favor. Not to say that all men with large cocks are bad lovers, they just haven’t had to work at ensuring their next lay their whole lives. It’s been my experience that men with larger dicks don’t know how to work it at all, they jam it in and out, don’t hit a fucking spot with any kind of alphabetic letter, let alone the ‘G’, and often can’t stay hard for long. But that’s just me.

So, we’ve covered anal and vaginal, but what about oral? Oral is definitely a matter of taste. Each woman has their own preferences when it comes to sucking dick. Personally, I like them all sizes, but if the urethral opening is larger then my eye, it ain’t fitting in my mouth. So sad.