MsZombie says:

I would not say better, just different. The main difference to me is that normally women are softer and men are more aggressive. Let me go into this more for you. Women, no matter how rough and brutal the make out session is, her mouth is going to be soft and soothing. Why? Maybe it’s because most women don’t shave there face, or the lip gloss keeps our lips hydrated, but besides that I do not know. Men have more power normally behind kissing, but I have found guys are bigger wimps than girls. How can a man be wimpier than a girl? Well, the women I have kissed often can take biting better and get pleasure, where guys just say “Ow that hurts” and ruin the moment.
The only other reason why they might say a girl is better is because us girls know what we want. Just like I got my info when I started giving head from a gay guy. Why you ask? Well guys know what feels good so they would know how to do it better, maybe girls are just more in tuned with other girls??? I don’t know.

LadyLove says:

I’ve been thinking about this one for a little while now and I do have to say that women are better kissers. It’s just like the ole stigma that men won’t stop to ask for directions because they’re convinced they already know where they’re going. Yea, that’s the best way I can describe it. Girls practice on each other at slumber parties and shit. Guys don’t watch the movie Cruel Intentions a hundred times and then practice on each other. Guys kinda get thrown out there to fend for themselves. If they’re smart, they catch on to what girls like. If they are convinced they know where they’re going and don’t want to ask for guidance they often end up lost. I do have to say though, women will be more than happy to assist you guys if you just asked. And don’t ask “Am I a good kisser?” because she’ll try and be polite and that wont solve anything. Instead, ask her “how do you like to be kissed?” or ask her to kiss you, let her take the lead and you follow. This is not only a turn on for her, but as you well know all women are different and like different things. Follow her lead and you’ll be better than any of her slumber party friends in no time.

Ms.Zombie says:

Yes that would be cheating. Think how you would feel seeing your girlfriend sample kissing another guy. It would probably suck and you would feel insecure about yourself. Well girls are the same way. Girls get hurt as easily as you do.

ladylove says:

Yes, yes, yes. There is no sampling or rationalizing cheating on someone. You are in a relationship, you have lead someone to believe you are committed to them, be committed or get out. Or, vocalize what’s going on. Obviously, she’s not doing it for you if you’re thinking about sampling another woman, so ask if things could be open for a while. If you do care about her just imagine how much you’d hurt her if she found out, because you know she’d DEFINATELY consider it cheating. Or, like Granny always used to say, put yourself in the other person’s shoes. Would you care if this girlfriend that you ‘love’ was sample kissing other guys?

Uh, probably!

Not to mention, how far can you really go with that faulty rationalization? What’s next, a sample screw? Shit or get off the pot.

Madam Cougalicious says:
Jon give it a rest… Are you trying to fool yourself because that’s what it sounds like to me.  We both know that the kiss will lead to sex.  If you have feelings for someone other than your girlfriend, you need to do the adult thing and communicate.  You could do the immature thing, cheat which will lead to getting busted and lots of drama.  And we all know how much guys love drama.  Grow up!!!

Handcuffs! Or, for those of you (like me) who are afraid to misplace a key or two or three, get creative. Use your tie when you get home from work!

Pocket Rockets! If you’re afraid she’ll shy away from introducing a real sex toy, pocket rockets are a great segue. Use it all over, just remember, if you put it in the pooper wash and sanitize it BEFORE you put it anywhere near the vagina!!

Sex Dice! Leave it up to fate… my suggestion, get glow in the dark dice and do it in the dark. This way not only are you reading what you should do, but then you’re forced to feel your way across her body to get to the body part you need to suck, lick, bite, kiss, or blow on. Another caution, get BIG dice. The little ones are maddening!

Blind Fold! Again, if she’s a little shy, use your tie or when you go to undress her, leave her shirt half over her head. This way you can control her arms and have her blindfolded.

Feathers! Come out of the shower naked and wet, lay her down and forbid her to touch you. Come to her with feathers, ice, or some other tickling device and have your fun! Best if she is blindfolded or laying face down. Goochie, goochie, goo

My advice, be creative! There are hundreds of toys to put in your box, all are wonderful and what’s even better is that she’ll appreciate you taking the time to plan something out. Just don’t rub her down with like a slim jim or something…