Top 10 list of what she’s begging you to do and why/how:

 10. Dirty Talk – learn it, love it. Without it, you’re dead in the water… Here’s how to do it: How to Dirty Talk

9. Do naughty things in public – NOT saying you have to go all the way, but while at a friend’s dinner party pull her into a back hallway and make out. Make sure you let her know “yup, can’t have this til you get home”

8. Smack her ass – don’t make her call ya Daddy, but when you’re getting hot and heavy give her a good open handed smack on the ass. One of the best things to do with spanking is after you do it, thrust harder… believe me she’ll get to like a good spanking soon enough!

7. Rough her up during sex – We’re not talking about beating her silly, we’re talking about throwing her up against the wall during sex. Pick her up, take her around the house and fuck her in uncomfortable places. Also, place her body yourself. During sex put her in the positions you want. Don’t wait for her to move, grab her ankles and make it happen.

6. Take what you want – while she’s on the phone or in the middle of doing laundry, sneak up behind her and start undressing her. Another good one is while she’s driving reach over and begin playing with her. Going up her skirt or down her pants without her permission (even better if she resists a little) is hot as hell… as is desiring her so much that you’ll take her anywhere at anytime (Hot midnight sex). I should clarify here that I’m talking about someone who has, and is still having, consensual sex with you… I’m not telling you to take what you want from someone who doesn’t want you. Just thought I should throw that in there.

5. Pull her hair – afraid to grab those locks? Here’s how to do it: How to pull her hair and make her like it. Pulling her hair can add soooo much to a sexual experience please try this one fo sho!

4. Play with her asshole – the asshole is a ‘taboo’ place. Graze it, lick it, tickle it, rub your dick around it or stick a finger in it, whatever you feel comfortable doing, just don’t ignore this incredible passion spot. Just the idea of you touching it could be a turn on to her if she’s never been touched there before.

3. Hold her down – during sex put her arms behind her head and hold them there. Make sure your grip is hard enough to be dominating but not hurtful. You could also experiment with bondage if you feel comfortable (Bondage) just remember to use your safeword and take it easy first time around. Again, just for the psycho’s out there I’ll explain that this should be done with someone who is having consensual sex with you.

2. Tease – don’t always give it up, desire is a wonderful thing. Don’t always give her what she wants right away, tease her. If she says she wants your cock inside her, do everything but. When she’s ready to explode give it to her. If she says she wants to suck your cock pull her hair so she can’t quite get her lips around it. You catch my drift. Just don’t drag it out, give in eventually.

1. Dominate – either while kissing or making love, slide your hand around her neck and gently hold her. Squeeze gently, we’re not talking about erotic asphyxiation here (although some people dig that) I’m just talking about a heavy hand to dominate her.  The neck signifies slavery, enslave her for that evening and see where things go.

Now that you’re a badass in bed, hope you do some damn fine HappyHumping!

Ok Humpers, this is a good one! It does take a little coordinating but if you two can get in the right groove you’ll really enjoy it. This is also a great time to indulge in both of your assholes! Humpers, if you guide her ass up and down on your cock and finger her ass she’ll be in heaven. Let her try to massage your prostate too and see how hard you cum!!

Let us know how it worked!! HappyHumping!

 Ms. Zombie says:

To me I believe this should be talked about on day one. A good way to see what she likes and to gauge what you can tell her at first would be ask her. Does she likes scratching or hair pulling? Ask her about things she has done. A question that came up a lot between Mr. Zombie and I when we first started was what were the craziest things sexually that we had done and what were some things you were ashamed of liking. This way it helps both of you open up. When you have that extra connection emotionally the sexual connection believe it or not will be stronger as well.
Madam Cougalicious says:

Hey Val… dating a few weeks and you want to get freaky?  Maybe you should have your brake pads checked.  Slow down and ask yourself if you have the basics down first before you go freaky.  Are you sure you have rocked her world in the missionary position?  Has she had the big “O” yet?  I would ask her that before you ask her to get freaky.   And yes, women fake orgasm so that they do not hurt your feelings.

ladylove says:

This totally depends on the level of freakiness! If you just want to play with her asshole I think you should test the waters and do it the next time you are together sexually. But if you want to pee in her mouth, well then, you need to be the first one to open wide and talk about it. If you’re really tweaked out about starting this kind of conversation out of the blue then play a little game. One night, refuse to come over to her house to give it to her, instead tell her you want her to masturbate while you give her phone sex. During the sexual conversation start telling her all the things you want to do with her. Guaranteed you’ll get your answer. If she gets off at your freakiness, high five!

Just remember that if you don’t eventually open up in some way to your sexual partner then you’re not fulfilling your needs and eventually you’ll be looking elsewhere. Bring it up and if it scares her away or she’s unwilling to try, then she’s not the girl for you… I don’t care if she looks like Jenna Jameson, move on because by not bringing it up you’re denying yourself and prolonging the inevitable. Us freaks need to stick together!

Now, before you start there might be some things that you can do to make this more enjoyable for her.  For instance, make sure your nails are smooth. We don’t need you boys ripping our vag walls with your un-kept nails. Also lots of lube, the more the better. Slab it on your hand, her ass or pussy, and make sure to get it all over and around your fingers.

When starting fisting know that it will not happen all at once. This is a process. Ripping can occur and that is why I cannot stress enough to take it slow and take signs from her to know when to stop. 

Take one finger and start fingering her. You know you like feeling her wet hole so this should not be an issue. Once you have got her wet enough to take five fingers *now pay close attention this is vital info* slip the knuckles inside and fold your thumb inside your fingers. INSIDE YOUR FINGERS!!!  You do not need to clench your hand down because your hand should form a natural fist.

Boys the only other thing you need to know is if she clenches up stop, and don’t pull out until the contraction stops. You can seriously hurt someone if you pull out mid contract and could damage mussels. If this happens as well it means you have reached your limit so give her a break. She has been a good sport; maybe go down on her to show her your thanks!

Guys unless you want an itchy asshole, please don’t shave your asshole. I’d rather deal with the hair!