“My girlfriend told me the other day that she wanted to see other people. Stay together, but I be sexual with other people. Would we be considered ‘swingers’ or would it be considered an open relationship? What’s the difference?” (Jayme, 24) ladylove says: my love, I’d consider that an open relationship unless the two of [...]

“I’m having a really hard time trying to figure out this girl I’m having sex with. I want to know if she’ll try some of the things I want to do but I don’t want her to think I’m weird. How do I bring out her inner freak, without scaring her away? We’ve only been [...]

“How do I get my girlfriend to give me head?” (Aaron, 18) ladylove says: There are a few reasons why a woman wouldn’t give head. 1. She could be afraid she’s not good at it. Which, with a little direction from you i’m sure she’d be a porn star at it in no time. 2. [...]

“I was wondering… what effects does chlorine have on a condom?? Does it cause it to be ineffective, and what about the safety of having sex in water in general for both me and my girl?” (Andrew, 23)       Ms. Zombie says: Alright I use to think that sex in water is bad, [...]

“I read an advertisement in a mag for a pill that can make semen have flavor, like cherry, apple or something. Have you ever heard of this pill? Know if it really works? Know where I could get it?” (Mauro, 35)   Ms. Zombie says: Hmmmm I have never heard this before until you asked. [...]