MsZombie says:
Some women get super nervous about a guy going down on them. A lot of times it  has to do with their own insecurities. Unlike you guys, girls think of everything from “do i taste good?” to “is my pussy normal size?” So that possibly could be why she says she doesn’t like it. Just make sure that you drop a hint every now and then about how perfect her pussy is, maybe she will warm up a little
 
Also your technique could be the reason. Are you attacking it like a raw piece of meat or are you slowly dragging your tongue across her clit. There are a lot of writings on how to eat proper pussy however it is finding what she likes. A really good way to see what spots get her off is ask her to masturbate in front of you. Watch what she does with her fingers. Is she mainly rubbing or fingering? Does she tease herself or does she go for the gold? Once you see what she likes try to do the same with your tongue.
 
Lastly there is nothing wrong with liking. I’m sure you’ll like it a lot more once she gets into it too. More men should actually be like you! Believe it or not, a lot of guys don’t so the fact that you can say you love it should be something you should be proud of.

LadyLove says:

Dude you have to find out why she doesn’t like it. Has she ever liked it when a guy has done it to her? Is it just how you do it or is she a vagina-phobe? If she is, definitely stroke her ego A LOT! Women can be really vagina shy, so be sure to tell her how much you love her lady parts. If she’s enjoyed it from other lovers, your technique could be what is deterring her. Ask her how she wants you to do it or if you can improve in some way. There are tons of  sites and books dedicated to the art of going down on a gal. Also, stay tuned to our cunninglingus article coming soon!

Also, to answer your question about whether it’s normal for you to like it more than she does… it’s not normal, I think guys don’t really care to do it most of the time. So yes, you are a freak of nature and a national treasure. Keep lovin’ it! She’s a lucky gal and if she doesn’t come around you know how to find us.. ha ha just playin!

 MsZombie says:

First off it was kinda messed up that you slept with her sister. Second, lying is never a good thing to add on top of that. Now I am not saying that you have to tell her, but you will have to live with the decision. She might never find out, but the guilt might eat away at you… or you could tell her and she’ll break up with you. This is kind of one of those questions that really no matter what we say you are the one living with it. However, if you are really serious about this girl, you might want to tell her because it could always come out later.

LadyLove says:

Hey I think I saw an episode of this on Jerry Springer! Just playin, I recommend if you want to continue a relationship with her that you never tell her. Telling her is the right thing to do, but she will leave you. Not to mention the turmoil it’ll cause in her family. Unless she’s into sharing with siblings… does she live in Alabama by any chance (no lie it has the highest rate of incest, second is Alaska)? No? Then not a good idea. What you two did was morally wrong, but if the sister doesn’t want your girlfriend to find out then keep it locked up. If she’s already on bad terms with sis and you can’t go on with yourself, tell her. Just don’t expect her to ever forgive you.

 
MsZombie says:

Really I believe there is nothing wrong with masturbation or how much you do it as long as it is not fucking up your day. If you are board, lonely and horny a lot then go for it buddy. However, if you have a willing partner and you got shit to do, then maybe you need to prioritize. Who knows you might just have a lot of stress as well, and blowing one is great to feel better, even if it is for a quick sec.

LadyLove says:

I agree with MsZombie. I don’t see a problem with masturbation unless it’s getting in the way of your day to day life. We did a survey and 66% of men masturbate anywhere from 0-2 times per day. 33% masturbate from 3-5 times per day. If you’re exceeding 5 times a day you need to quit your job and pursue a career in the porn industry. Tell them LadyLove sent you. My cut is only 15%.

MsZombie says:

It depends on the time of day. Early morning sex I am good to go. Night or afternoon sex I sometimes like to take a nap after. Also if there is a temping offer and I’m tired, I’ll fucking stay up for it.

LadyLove says:

Every lady is different. Women can most often cum a few times and continue going but some ladies can only cum once or twice (if that). Pay attention to your lady and if she wants more you give it and you give it good… lol. Just so long as you don’t curl up with a blankey before you’ve pleased your ladyfriend. Remember, penis is second to pussy… cuz we said so!

LadyLove says:

If you have your doubts bring a backup, but the answer to your question is absolutely yes. A lot of women have latex allergies. It could cause anything from mild sensitivity to a full blown vaginal infection. Wow, did I really just say vaginal infection on a male sex advice column. haha.. sorry. Anyway, yes, research and find some condoms that do not have latex and go for those just to be on the safe side. Polyurethane condoms are out there and are a little more expensive but are easier on the girly parts. HappyHumping!

MsZombie says:

Well more likely then not buddy, she is allergic to it. Most women don’t lie about that unless you are dating some shady ass women. There are other types of condoms out there besides latex but they aren’t as efficient. If all fails, stick it in her ass cause then she cant get prego from that. Just make sure she is clean because remember condoms are not just for preventing pregnancy but also STDs.

MsZombie says:

Normally the cock head swells up and the shaft plumps up as well right before and as you guys cum. Which feels really good. I don’t know though about the feeling the jizz coming out. I never felt anything like that. The only way I could think that you would is if he had a water sprinkler inside his balls. But what are the odds of that?

LadyLove says:

Well, some women are more sensitive to it and swear they feel it… it could definitely be psychological. I have never felt it, but all women are different. Actually, I suppose it’s possible because women go through hormonal changes throughout the month which would leave them more sensitive at times. So it is possible for the same woman to claim she feels it one night and not the other. Not to mention, sometimes men get off harder than others. Sometimes it squirts out like Mount Vesuvius and sometimes it dribbles. I think this calls for an experiment….

LadyLove says:

Well Charlie, I’d lie if I said it was easy. It’s not easy to ask someone if they’re clean.. or even to tell someone that you have something for that matter. Unfortunately it is the reality of our era that nearly everyone will be (or will have been) infected with some sort of STD by time they hit their 30s. So, my advice is to be as honest and open as you can. The best way I found that works is by telling them you would like to get tested again and then asking them when was the last time they’d been tested. That way you’re not accusing, condescending or assuming, instead you are putting yourself on their same level. Don’t be shy to ask them how’d they do on the test. It’s nice if she got tested three months ago but you’d still like to know the results. It is absolutely your business to know if your relationship is heading toward a sexual level. I would also recommend that regardless of her last results, you ask her if she wouldn’t mind going and getting tested again and you will do the same for her. This shows that you not only value yourself but her safety as well. She’ll respect it and do it, and if she doesn’t she’s a tramp and you need to run in the opposite direction pigeon toed and screaming like a little girl. Okay, well maybe not that last part. Remember, you both get tested (hey, make a date out of it), and you both share your written results with each other… otherwise there’s really no point. Hope this helped!

MsZombie says:

Simple, just ask her. If she gets offended then she must be hiding something. To me, if the person asked me first it also shows that they are concerned about their health as well, which equals responsibility. Just do it nicely. For example, don’t go up to her and be like ” Bitch, when the last time you got your ass tested?” You can rephrase that to, “Look I have been really feeling you and I just wanna know if you have anything or ever been tested.”

LadyLove says:

Everyone is different so be sure to ask your lady, but if you’re trying to impress a new gal here are a few for-sure spots to hit. Small of the back (tramp stamp region), back of the neck, armpits (make sure you don’t get a mouth full of deodorant! Best if this weapon is used after a dip in the pool or a shower), palms of hands, inner thys, back of the knee, and hip bones. I’m sure some ladies could think of more.

Oh, I just thought of this one. I was once kissed by a gentlemen on the back of my hand in a very polite manner while we were out to dinner. I thought, what a nice gesture, then he began to kiss very teasingly in between my fingers and I thought I was going to fall off the chair. So, if you’re brave maybe try that one. It was great because not only the act of doing it felt great but the fact that we were out in public made it even better. Also, if you can’t get to a location to kiss or tease it, gently tickle it with the tips of your fingers. The back of the knee is great for that little trick.

MsZombie says:

HMMMmmmm. Well for me the most erotic zone is actually my back and back part of my neck. A good back rub or nibbling and I turn to mush. However I have found that their are soooo many more. The calf, back of the knees, inner thighs, collar bones, and the sides of your waist are awesome as well. Strangely enough I also found the back of that hand, if done right is good for a nibble or two. However please avoid trying to put hickies on the ribs or sternum because it will hurt sooo badly.

MsZombie says:

I would not say better, just different. The main difference to me is that normally women are softer and men are more aggressive. Let me go into this more for you. Women, no matter how rough and brutal the make out session is, her mouth is going to be soft and soothing. Why? Maybe it’s because most women don’t shave there face, or the lip gloss keeps our lips hydrated, but besides that I do not know. Men have more power normally behind kissing, but I have found guys are bigger wimps than girls. How can a man be wimpier than a girl? Well, the women I have kissed often can take biting better and get pleasure, where guys just say “Ow that hurts” and ruin the moment.
The only other reason why they might say a girl is better is because us girls know what we want. Just like I got my info when I started giving head from a gay guy. Why you ask? Well guys know what feels good so they would know how to do it better, maybe girls are just more in tuned with other girls??? I don’t know.

LadyLove says:

I’ve been thinking about this one for a little while now and I do have to say that women are better kissers. It’s just like the ole stigma that men won’t stop to ask for directions because they’re convinced they already know where they’re going. Yea, that’s the best way I can describe it. Girls practice on each other at slumber parties and shit. Guys don’t watch the movie Cruel Intentions a hundred times and then practice on each other. Guys kinda get thrown out there to fend for themselves. If they’re smart, they catch on to what girls like. If they are convinced they know where they’re going and don’t want to ask for guidance they often end up lost. I do have to say though, women will be more than happy to assist you guys if you just asked. And don’t ask “Am I a good kisser?” because she’ll try and be polite and that wont solve anything. Instead, ask her “how do you like to be kissed?” or ask her to kiss you, let her take the lead and you follow. This is not only a turn on for her, but as you well know all women are different and like different things. Follow her lead and you’ll be better than any of her slumber party friends in no time.

MsZombie says:

Ummm well, with me I let them know. However since I know that some girls… ok most girls, don’t tell you most things maybe you should check out my article on fetishes. It gives some pointers on introducing new idea to the bedroom. Also a way that can help is while having sex just grab her face softly and tap it a couple times, or flat out ask her if you can smack her. Who knows maybe she’ll be the type that likes getting a black eye. And if that is the true MARRY HER. hahah …. just joking.

LadyLove says:

LMAO! Ok, I’m gonna answer this as if it were a serious question so here it goes:

When she’s not asking for it… bad idea.

When she IS asking for it (as in, “smack me in the face”)… have at it.

Naw, unless she’s Courtney Love there’s really no excuse. Don’t smack your woman around or else you’ll end up in jail or havin’ your ass beat by her big brothers. If she’s THAT annoying just get outta dodge. It’s not worth it. Not to mention, some of these ladies are crazy. Smack your bitch and you may end up with a cat-clawed face and a sore groin! oooch!