What is weak, what is right?

I’ll be frankly honest, I hate guys who are too kingly at first. Now if you are in a relationship or long distance I have no problem hearing “I miss you”. If you have only hung out a couple times, are not in a real relationship, or just met, this makes you look kind of sad. It really is a big turn off if a guy says this to me in the first couple months. Maybe it feels like they aren’t strong or maybe  like I’m being rushed into something, either way I don’t like it. There are ways to show her you want to be around her with out saying those three words. 

I might be coming from a different place though than most girls. To update all you humpers, I was in a 3 and a half year relationship and it ended back in May. Now it feels very odd to be single and I am realizing what I like and what I don’t like more and more. So moral of the story, wait a while before you say you miss her. You might scare her away especially if it is said before anything happens. 

Now at the same point if you seem too distant and act too tough you might lose out as well. A woman will only put up with so much. Key word is women. Girls will play along with the games for a long ass time, but some one like us will not. We will entertain your tests and games, but in the end if you don’t crack and tell us what you really want then we will just walk away. 

“Ms. Zombie, then where is the line?” To be honest I would say have fun. Enjoy the person, but make sure they are on the same page. You might enjoy it but them not so much. If you feel you found some one special speak up but know you might get hurt. Dating is nothing that is 100% certainty, trust me on this. You jump into it or half ass it. If you half ass it then it will probably fail. Show her how you feel without looking weak, but don’t build your wall too much or she will give up on you. Women are very tricky. I myself have not figured us out since we are all different. But if I have a break through I will let you all know.