Oral Sex
“I really like to go down on my woman but she doesn’t like it. How do I do it better? Is it normal to like doing it more than she likes receiving it?” (Dave, 35)
MsZombie says:
Some women get super nervous about a guy going down on them. A lot of times it has to do with their own insecurities. Unlike you guys, girls think of everything from “do i taste good?” to “is my pussy normal size?” So that possibly could be why she says she doesn’t like it. Just make sure that you drop a hint every now and then about how perfect her pussy is, maybe she will warm up a little
Also your technique could be the reason. Are you attacking it like a raw piece of meat or are you slowly dragging your tongue across her clit. There are a lot of writings on how to eat proper pussy however it is finding what she likes. A really good way to see what spots get her off is ask her to masturbate in front of you. Watch what she does with her fingers. Is she mainly rubbing or fingering? Does she tease herself or does she go for the gold? Once you see what she likes try to do the same with your tongue.
Lastly there is nothing wrong with liking. I’m sure you’ll like it a lot more once she gets into it too. More men should actually be like you! Believe it or not, a lot of guys don’t so the fact that you can say you love it should be something you should be proud of.
LadyLove says:
Dude you have to find out why she doesn’t like it. Has she ever liked it when a guy has done it to her? Is it just how you do it or is she a vagina-phobe? If she is, definitely stroke her ego A LOT! Women can be really vagina shy, so be sure to tell her how much you love her lady parts. If she’s enjoyed it from other lovers, your technique could be what is deterring her. Ask her how she wants you to do it or if you can improve in some way. There are tons of sites and books dedicated to the art of going down on a gal. Also, stay tuned to our cunninglingus article coming soon!
Also, to answer your question about whether it’s normal for you to like it more than she does… it’s not normal, I think guys don’t really care to do it most of the time. So yes, you are a freak of nature and a national treasure. Keep lovin’ it! She’s a lucky gal and if she doesn’t come around you know how to find us.. ha ha just playin!
