“I’ve heard that women are better at kissing (ie woman on woman)? Is this true? If so how do we compete, emulate?” (Kevin, 20)
MsZombie says:
I would not say better, just different. The main difference to me is that normally women are softer and men are more aggressive. Let me go into this more for you. Women, no matter how rough and brutal the make out session is, her mouth is going to be soft and soothing. Why? Maybe it’s because most women don’t shave there face, or the lip gloss keeps our lips hydrated, but besides that I do not know. Men have more power normally behind kissing, but I have found guys are bigger wimps than girls. How can a man be wimpier than a girl? Well, the women I have kissed often can take biting better and get pleasure, where guys just say “Ow that hurts” and ruin the moment.
The only other reason why they might say a girl is better is because us girls know what we want. Just like I got my info when I started giving head from a gay guy. Why you ask? Well guys know what feels good so they would know how to do it better, maybe girls are just more in tuned with other girls??? I don’t know.
LadyLove says:
I’ve been thinking about this one for a little while now and I do have to say that women are better kissers. It’s just like the ole stigma that men won’t stop to ask for directions because they’re convinced they already know where they’re going. Yea, that’s the best way I can describe it. Girls practice on each other at slumber parties and shit. Guys don’t watch the movie Cruel Intentions a hundred times and then practice on each other. Guys kinda get thrown out there to fend for themselves. If they’re smart, they catch on to what girls like. If they are convinced they know where they’re going and don’t want to ask for guidance they often end up lost. I do have to say though, women will be more than happy to assist you guys if you just asked. And don’t ask “Am I a good kisser?” because she’ll try and be polite and that wont solve anything. Instead, ask her “how do you like to be kissed?” or ask her to kiss you, let her take the lead and you follow. This is not only a turn on for her, but as you well know all women are different and like different things. Follow her lead and you’ll be better than any of her slumber party friends in no time.
As for kissing, my man is the best I have ever had! The first time we kissed, I felt like I had died and gone to heaven. He isn’t a hard kisser, but gentle and VERY erotic! When we kiss, I become so aroused, I could cum from just kissing him. I’ll make sure he reads this post, so he knows just how much I LOVE kissing him!
I know, out of all my boyfriends my long-term x was the best kisser ever. He used to make my knees quiver and shake! I gotta say though, since then no one has done that to me and I’ve kissed quite a few.
I was quite surprised to find somone who enjoys kissing as much as I do. He has told me he could kiss for hours. Of course, it leads to more than that, because as I said in my first post, his kissing is very erotic! Sigh, he has full lucious lips that I love kissing…I need them NOW! Where are you when I need you My B.?