What is considered cheating?

“I have been in a relationship for a while and recently met a girl I really like. I love my girlfriend don’t get me wrong, but I was wondering if I kissed this other girl, say, a ‘sample’ kiss, would that be considered cheating? I just want to know if there is any chemistry there.” (Jon, 28)

Ms.Zombie says:

Yes that would be cheating. Think how you would feel seeing your girlfriend sample kissing another guy. It would probably suck and you would feel insecure about yourself. Well girls are the same way. Girls get hurt as easily as you do.

ladylove says:

Yes, yes, yes. There is no sampling or rationalizing cheating on someone. You are in a relationship, you have lead someone to believe you are committed to them, be committed or get out. Or, vocalize what’s going on. Obviously, she’s not doing it for you if you’re thinking about sampling another woman, so ask if things could be open for a while. If you do care about her just imagine how much you’d hurt her if she found out, because you know she’d DEFINATELY consider it cheating. Or, like Granny always used to say, put yourself in the other person’s shoes. Would you care if this girlfriend that you ‘love’ was sample kissing other guys?

Uh, probably!

Not to mention, how far can you really go with that faulty rationalization? What’s next, a sample screw? Shit or get off the pot.

Madam Cougalicious says:
Jon give it a rest… Are you trying to fool yourself because that’s what it sounds like to me.  We both know that the kiss will lead to sex.  If you have feelings for someone other than your girlfriend, you need to do the adult thing and communicate.  You could do the immature thing, cheat which will lead to getting busted and lots of drama.  And we all know how much guys love drama.  Grow up!!!