How to get her freaky!

“I’m having a really hard time trying to figure out this girl I’m having sex with. I want to know if she’ll try some of the things I want to do but I don’t want her to think I’m weird. How do I bring out her inner freak, without scaring her away? We’ve only been dating a few weeks, when is the right time to do that?” (Val, 28)
 

 Ms. Zombie says:

To me I believe this should be talked about on day one. A good way to see what she likes and to gauge what you can tell her at first would be ask her. Does she likes scratching or hair pulling? Ask her about things she has done. A question that came up a lot between Mr. Zombie and I when we first started was what were the craziest things sexually that we had done and what were some things you were ashamed of liking. This way it helps both of you open up. When you have that extra connection emotionally the sexual connection believe it or not will be stronger as well.
Madam Cougalicious says:

Hey Val… dating a few weeks and you want to get freaky?  Maybe you should have your brake pads checked.  Slow down and ask yourself if you have the basics down first before you go freaky.  Are you sure you have rocked her world in the missionary position?  Has she had the big “O” yet?  I would ask her that before you ask her to get freaky.   And yes, women fake orgasm so that they do not hurt your feelings.

ladylove says:

This totally depends on the level of freakiness! If you just want to play with her asshole I think you should test the waters and do it the next time you are together sexually. But if you want to pee in her mouth, well then, you need to be the first one to open wide and talk about it. If you’re really tweaked out about starting this kind of conversation out of the blue then play a little game. One night, refuse to come over to her house to give it to her, instead tell her you want her to masturbate while you give her phone sex. During the sexual conversation start telling her all the things you want to do with her. Guaranteed you’ll get your answer. If she gets off at your freakiness, high five!

Just remember that if you don’t eventually open up in some way to your sexual partner then you’re not fulfilling your needs and eventually you’ll be looking elsewhere. Bring it up and if it scares her away or she’s unwilling to try, then she’s not the girl for you… I don’t care if she looks like Jenna Jameson, move on because by not bringing it up you’re denying yourself and prolonging the inevitable. Us freaks need to stick together!