How to Prep for Anal Sex.

One of the reasons most girls are scared to try anal is because they think it will hurt. Well it will, but so did popping the cherry and they got over that fear real fast didn’t they. There are some tricks though that will help with the pain and make it easier for you and for her.

 

First get lots of lube. I can not stress this enough because if you don’t then you can hurt her and she’ll never want you near her ass again. But as I was saying before when doing anything with inserting into ass, lube is a plus.  You are also not going to want to go full force into her ass. Just like with fisting*link* you are going to want to start slow and small. Pinkie fingers are great. Pinkie fingers are even better when you are eating her out and you slide one in (Boys this is a great way to introduce it to her) . Believe it or not that is a guarantee for me to cum. After you got a pinkie in you can move to a regular finger, thumb, multiple fingers, dildos and/or anal beads, just please don’t rush her.

 

Again you will know if you are going to fast cause a) she will hit you and say it hurts or b) her body will clench down. Remember do not pull out till the clench releases or there will be damages.

 

Now for the girls, in order to make it better for her she can exercise her sphincters. Yes there is an “s” at the end of sphincter because you have two! The inner one is actual 2 to 3 inches in and is the main muscle control. The outer is you butt hole. Now if you start clenching and relaxing the inner muscle you will be able to control those muscle during sex just like you would if you where working any other muscle in your body. You could hold it for 12 seconds really hard and they relax the muscle , then push for 12 second *please note you do not need to push hard, you don’t need to crap anything out or fart to get results, just a slight push*

 

Lastly I do not advice getting wasted before having anal sex. Having a drink to relax is one thing but please, please do not get drunk, don’t toke, pop pills, snort or shoot anything before! I say this because these are all gonna destroy the bodies sensory system and that means the person will not know it something is being ripped, torn, pulled, or worse, getting a blown out ass hole. Let’s face it this is supposed to be fun but if her inner sphincter is popping out to say hi all the time I am pretty sure you’ll never really want to do it again.

 

The slow tortoise wins the race and a patient partner gets to play in the ass. Remember those words!

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