Honesty

Sexual honesty is the best policy!

 

Sex! It makes a relationship a relationship because let’s admit it without it you are just friends and who wants to hear that. Sex is a great thing but sometimes it can get boring or you don’t get what you want. Sometimes in new and older relationships you are scared to really open up because you think it will scare them away, but in the end you are still jacking in the corner to whatever your kinks are… or worse going elsewhere for it.

I learned this the hard way. I never truly got what I wanted out of sex and no matter how many guys I was with or how many times I had sex it was boring. I figured that what I like might offend the other person and then it would make everything awkward. So with my current boyfriend I decided to open up first thing. I was tired of not cumming and I was tired of doing a lot of the work and getting nothing but stickiness in return. Did I feel silly, yes! And did I feel embarrassed, about something’s hell ya, but it was sooo worth it.

Not only is sex better for both of us but he knows he does not have to go to anyone else, that I will try whatever he wants. Even better there is sooooo much to try out there to keep even the oldest couple entertained. I mean between toys, role play, positions, places, and creativity you can have at least 50 years of hard core great fucking!

Of course you both won’t like everything the other person likes but the point is you figure that out together. You don’t even have to start trying things out but at least if you talk then the other person sees who you really are. To me when you are having sex with someone you are seeing the real them which makes great sex and chemistry, but if you are faking and holding back than you really are not letting the other person enjoy you like they should. You are cheating yourself and the other person because more likely than not they will like the real you more.

Just make sure you’re safe, and I am not talking about condoms. If you are doing bondage or s&m have a safe word and respect that safe word or if you are doing cutting or even food play know the risks. Research never hurt the professional porn stars so why would it hurt you. So start brain storming what things you REALLY want to do and if you’re honest who know you might have the best time of your life!