Is it gay if……

Is it gay if…? I hear this all the time and most likely than not I say no. I will be touching on several different topics throughout the months about what is really going on. One thing I think is funny that guys are turned off by is any type of anal play. Immediately if anything tickles their asshole it tightens up and things end. Why is that?

One reason might be because they are scared of something new or it’s a homophobic thing. Either way, relax! Anal play can be a boys best friend too. I am not saying taking a 12 inch dildo and shoving it up your ass raw, but let the fingers graze it, maybe a tongue if she is willing to try that. Some times during sex I like to have him laying diagonal on me that way it lets me play with his balls and his ass a little, and you know what it brings… more stimulation, which equals better orgasm. And let’s face it that is what we are really aiming for.

After you relax a little and you feel comfy with the grazing and licking and rubbing, maybe you’ll realize you want a little more, then a finger can slip in and bam! You got prostate stimulation or the male g-spot. You wanna cum hard? If she, or yourself press upon it while jacking, fucking, or sucking you will cum harder than you have ever in your life. Also try a pocket rocket because also a little vibration never hurts and they are small so you don’t have to worry about stretching your ass out.

Guys there is nothing wrong with ass play! Your chick won’t see you as gay, and you will be in heaven. Just remember the lube!!!